Inclusion is a Funny Thing

updated 2022

Inclusion is a funny thing. When it is “done right”, it’s not something to talk about. It just is. Being inclusive means accepting all people for who they are regardless of their abilities or race or religion or gender or…or…or…. 

When a community is inclusive, anyone who wants to participate can, to whatever extent they desire. Period. And there’s no need for fanfare, no self-congratulatory pats on the back, and no reason to advertise your accomplishments because you are just a community doing what a community should do, welcoming everyone.

But inclusion, particularly inclusion of people with disabilities, is STILL not happening consistently in the Jewish world; at least not naturally, comfortably, and universally. So it continues to be important that those who are “doing it well” share so that those who are not there yet can learn and take those first steps.

I am fortunate, and proud, to be part of a community that is “doing it well”. There are always ways to grow, but we are proud to honestly and truthfully call ourselves an inclusive community.

Here are just a few of the things that Temple Beth-El in Hillsborough, New Jersey offers to all of its members:

• A fully inclusive religious school. No child is turned away and we work with families individually to determine appropriate and effective learning goals and strategies. We offer a range of options for students of varying abilities, along with support and training for our faculty and madrichim (teen assistants). 
• We individualize bar/bat/brit mitzvah expectations and experiences to meet students' unique needs.
• Fully inclusive post bar/bat/brit mitzvah experiences; including social events, leadership opportunities, and overnight experiences. 
• Accessible and inclusive worship. We can provide large print and Braille siddurim, augmented sound capabilities, a “quiet room” for those who may feel over stimulated.
• Our building and sanctuary are accessible, including an elevator in our school wing, a ramp to our bimah, and an appropriately graded parking lot with accessible parking close to the main entrance.  

Someday (hopefully) lists like this will be obsolete. Someday (hopefully) inclusion will just be.  

Until then, it would be my pleasure to help guide your community as you take steps toward change.

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