Last week, in preparation for a four-day seminar on social
justice for teens, I spent an hour and a half with one of the thirty students I
would be bringing to Washington DC for what I knew would be an amazing
experience. This is a student with dyslexia, so I wanted to ensure that she
felt prepared to encounter the content and would not feel overwhelmed by the
pace of the program and the often chaotic nature of the various activities.
I didn’t think twice about it, really; at least not until
she reminded me. She told another member of our staff who popped in to say
hello that I was “so great” for “giving up” my time to make sure she was ready.
Gave up? Trust me. I gave up nothing.
What a gift to watch her eyes light up when I explained that
one of the goals of this weekend was to teach teens to advocate. “You know,” I
said, “like the way you tell someone that you need them to go slower or read
something again because you have dyslexia. You advocate for yourself all the
time.” I explained that our weekend would be focused on learning all about what
it means to advocate for those we care about and for those who may not be able
to advocate for themselves. “So you will be in a place surrounded by people who
will be proud of you for speaking up for yourself,” I reassured her. She
glowed.
While I realize that this kind of work doesn’t come
naturally to everyone, I often take my own efforts for granted. I am always
surprised when I hear stories like this one: The program director and I were
chatting on the first morning and he shared that another congregation sent a
student, who is typically provided with an aide for support at regional youth
events, to this program without support. Why? It wasn’t in their budget. And
they didn’t share this with the program staff in advance (who would have
readily offered financial support) but rather mentioned it as an aside once the
program was under way when it was clear that the student needed additional
support.
I was again reminded of the significance of our inclusive
approach when a friend and staff member shared something she had said about me:
“Lisa doesn’t just talk the talk, she walks the walk. She spent an hour an a
half with one student to prep just days before she had to be “on” for four days
straight with thirty of them.” Ok, it’s lovely to receive such a compliment.
But more importantly it’s just so critical to me that others know that inclusion isn’t always hard. We just have to do it. We just need to have the conversations,
ask the questions and try our best to anticipate the “what ifs”.
I believe deeply in inclusion, so I make it a priority. You can make inclusion a priority, too.
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